Solution
If you have needed drivers installed to work with NI-5781, then you have access to the FlexRIO Transceiver Help (on disk at C:\Users\Public\Documents\National Instruments\FlexRIO\Adapter Module Documentation\FRIOtransAMR.chm ).
From that doc, you can find the answers to the needed information.
- The Help document contains information, which protocol to use with the needed devices and for DAC3484 there is a need to use SPI commands

- The "User Command Arg" arguments are for configuring the clocking on the adapter module. The "User Command Arg 0" sets the clock mode of the adapter

The "User Command Arg 1" is for sample rate and data rate configuration.