Solution
VCOM is a Restbus tool, i.e., it's function is to simulate a network, and not just send raw frames like XNET does. It has a parser underneath that processes your configuration and the .arxml to generate a list of signals, ECUs, IPs and sockets for receiving and transmitting data on different ports, IPs, VLANs etc.
If your .arxml contains the information for only 1 ECU, but it does not define the full communication of the network between that ECU and others, you will not see any traffic as the simulation does not know where to send the data generated by the singular ECU. The parser requires both endpoints in the .arxml in order to have all the information it needs to create that full Restbus Simulation.